Advice to find the right therapist for you

Yesterday we wrote about the importance of the client’s role in therapy and their rapport with their therapist.  This view is emphasised in a new book by Professor Mick Cooper, of the University of Strathclyde, called Essential Research Findings in Counselling and Psychotherapy: The Facts are Friendly. His work is also supported by a group of colleagues including Barry Duncan, a highly regarded American psychologist.  In 2004, they stated that:

"clients, not therapists, make therapy work".

Professor Cooper’s advice to those who are considering visiting a therapist is summarised below:

  • ask therapists for any thoughts about why you may be facing your difficulties and what they believe may be able to help you.  If your own thoughts radically conflict, then you might find it difficult to establish a good rapport;
  • consider a therapist to help you concentrate on your own strengths.  For instance, if you believe you are good at understanding the reasons behind your own behaviour, then choose a therapist who can help you develop these skills rather than one who prefers to focus on emotions or on the behaviour itself;
  • be sure that you work with a therapist who you like and who makes you feel respected.  A good working relationship is an important factor in therapy, whether that is Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) or psychology. 

After all, the best indicator of the outcome of your treatment is how much you can actively involve yourself and this is more likely with a good working relationship.



22/10/2008 | Posted in Psychotherapy, Counselling, CBT,


Are we handling depression incorrectly?

An article in the Daily Mail last week talked about how using the wrong drugs could actually be causing depression rather than helping it. There has been some concern in the media recently that family doctors diagnose depression too easily - for example when we feel tired and find it hard to get out of bed in the morning.

According to a new book by Professor Jane Plant, a London University College scientist, called Beating Stress, Anxiety and Depression, many of the two million people in the UK who take antidepressants are actually misdiagnosed.

"A study by an American psychiatrist found that more than 10 per cent of patients diagnosed with mental illness are actually suffering from an underlying physical condition, such as a heart murmur or a mineral deficiency such as calcium or magnesium that causes depression-like symptoms," says Professor Plant.

Many believe that, within the NHS, there is too much emphasis on a one size fits all approach and feel that other methods should be taken into consideration, such as using alternatives where possible: counselling, psychotherapy and other forms of stress management.

For example, many people suffering from anxiety react well to cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) as this looks at their existing patterns of behaviours and triggers and trains them to react and think differently, so they can avoid anxiety at different situations. CBT is often combined with relaxation therapies, such as hypnotherapy, to make it even more effective. It's also a relatively quick therapy and there is no need for drugs.

However, even the alternative treatments should be considered for individual cases.  For example, CBT would not be as helpful for someone with post-natal depression as this is considered a hormonal issue and is best treated by support, counselling or psychotherapy where needed. We live in a nation where we are sometimes too hasty to turn to drugs, our doctors are overworked and alternative treatments and therapies are often still overlooked by many.



16/06/2008 | Posted in Psychotherapy, Hypnotherapy, Counselling, CBT,


 

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